We all have one life to live. Most of us are not aware of or never think of what is the purpose of life. Most of the people go through life pursuing material wealth, success and other materialistic goals one after another. Average man lives on the physical plane and spends all his time in pursuit of better standard of living, money as well as physical comfort and happiness. Little does he know that peace and happiness does not lie in material wealth or physical comforts. Every individual today is busy chasing career, money and many more things with the result he is stressed out and restless. Lifestyle diseases and psychological problems have become common bane. What is it that will make everyone stop in their track, relook at life and understand what is the meaning of life.
Meaning of life can be different for different people. There are few who are happy with the thought of being rich, then there are those who love to have a beautiful home, a loving wife and family and a happy life. There are people who are driven by excessive libido and seek sex all the time. Few others seek to find happiness and love in sex.
Those who seek sex and physical pleasure are either prompted to do so due to hormones in their body that increases their sexual drive or they are psychologically unsound and are insecure. There may be many reasons and complexes that force people to seek physical sex. Serial rapists and killers are typical cases of such psychologically disturbed people who take to excessive sex and sexual abuse. Most often it is seen that people who suffer in their childhood and have faced un-natural situations grow up with psychological problems and exhibit such irrational behavior. Men are wired to seek pleasure in sex. From times immemorial, men have been seeking remedies and solutions to increase their libido.
Nature has provided a healthy lifecycle for man as well as all living beings to propagate their own species through sex. Accordingly men and women have a reproductive lifecycle which begins with puberty and ends with menopause in the case of women and andropause in the case of men. However when man begins to engage in excessive and indiscriminate sex that is driven by mind, he ends up abusing the nature in terms of his own body and thus invites diseases and suffering.
Sexual engagement and physical enjoyment are not the purpose of life of man. Nature has not intended man to be the same as animals who are instinct bound. Man is expected to engage in healthy sex in order to procreate. He has been endowed with mind and consciousness using which he is expected to seek higher goals and move towards self realization or seek out his creator. When every individual understands this fact, his life will change and he will have ascended to a higher plane of love leaving behind the physical plane of sex and material existence.